Win/Win Guidelines
1. Take time to cool off.
2. Each person states their feelings and the problem as they see it
using "I Messages." No blaming, no name calling, no interrupting.
3. Each person states the problem as the other person sees it.
4. Each person says how they are responsible for the problem.
5. Brainstorm solutions together and choose a solution that satisfies
both - a Win/Win solution.
6. Affirm, forgive or thank your partner.